Forever

Have you ever traveled to a place that just captivates you and over time holds a special place in your heart? For me that place has become Moab, Utah. Once again I made the journey out to Nebraska to hunt with family. But on the way my friend Maggi and I made what is turning into our annual stop in Moab. It is hard to believe that this smaller town just south of the I-70 in Utah exists. If you blink you will miss the exit, but don’t do that because if you make it the Red Rocks are there to welcome you.

This years trip was a little bit different instead of jumping from park to park looking at the amazing rock formations and taking in the dessert setting. We took the time to check out the petroglyphs at 9 mile canyon which is approximately 1.5 hrs from Moab and also some that can be found up a local back road in Moab. Needless to say the art was incredible and I wish it could tell you the story of why it was there. When we came across the “Great Hunt” scene it was amazing to see it in person instead of in a history book. Pictures definitely do not do it justice.

The Great Hunt taken in 9 Mile Canyon mile marker 49

In Moab they have some amazing petroglyphs as well. One of the ones we came across is titled “Birthing Rock” which is off the side of a dirt road that is maintained by Bureau Of Land Management and if you don’t have someone riding shotgun you could miss it. But it is really neat to see as well.

Birthing Rock in Moab Utah

Aside from the petroglyphs we also went back to Arches National Park. This time I decided I wanted to get up before the sun and see the park come to life as the sun rose over the mountains. Maggi was shocked because as most of the people in my life know I am not a morning person. It was absolutely worth every minute of sleep I missed. There is something about the dessert coming to life. The silence that awakens, the colors that become so vivid. It was a moment I am thankful to say that I have gotten to experience. We even hiked a bit out into the dessert to check out other rock formations and to get away from the other people who had the same idea as us. I have decided that the next time I visit Arches I will be doing it again. It definitely was a feed your soul moment for me.

Turret Arch at Sunrise in Arches National Park
South Window at Arches National Park at Sunrise

We also did the helicopter tour which was neat to see the arches you cant see from the ground. Our pilot was awesome and him and Maggi hit it off. I got some motion sickness so the last half I enjoyed with my eyes shut. But the site I was able to see where incredible. Thanks Maggi for the crazy ride in the helicopter 🙂

Pinnacle Helicopters in Moab Utah

Traveling in 2020 was definitely a different adventure but I am so thankful that we were able to. We got to enjoy the red rocks, friends, family and add more memories to the list. I am definitely ready for 2021 travel adventures. Until then here is a small glimpse of some of the amazing things I got to enjoy on my 2020 trip to Moab.

Stay posted for the annual yearly review. This year has been one for the books!

Downtown Moab Utah

I like me better

Wow what a crazy Spring it has been! It’s been awhile since I have taken the time to catch up on my blog and I apologize for that. This year so far I have made some changes and learned even more.

img_6093January was a busy one like normal. With the new year being here, Bull Sale, ISE and trying to get ready to find the best of the first month of the year. The month definitely brought some lasts as well. One of my best friends Callie that worked for Girls With Guns worked her final ISE show with Alecia and I. It was a happy and sad weekend that we definitely made the most of. January also included getting to watch my oldest niece Makenna play volleyball.dsc_0380

February brought the baby shower of my good friend Jen. She was welcoming baby O to the world and all of us couldn’t have been more excited. The month also brought Sounders (my boston terriers) first trip to the lake and getting to go to work with mom up in Paradise on the fire cleanup. It also was the beginning of softball season and for some crazy kids that meant working in the shop trying to get them ready for the season ahead of us.

 

March brought softball season. I had the honor of not only coaching a local middle school team but also a little league team. One thing I enjoy is getting to spend time with the youth and getting to coach softball makes it that much better. Alecia and I also decided that we wanted to explore the area we live in even more. We were able to located some pretty creeks and waterfall. We definitely have more waterfalls on the list to see but the one we hiked down to was incredible.

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April brought on the last of the middle school softball season. I was super proud of the girls they played great. I was able to take a trip to the Pismo Beach area and visit my best friend Megan for four amazing days. We went to Hearst Castle and a few wineries but mainly just enjoyed getting to spend time with one another. I love getting to see her when we both have a chance to get together. I ended April being able to harvest my first tom turkey thanks to Maggi. It was definitely worth the early wake up.img_8388 img_8272

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May brought more work up in Paradise CA on the clean ups. It also brought the Tehama District Fair where I worked for my 10th year. It was great fair. I had the honor of taking my Ag teacher from high schools daughters senior pictures. The best gift I have received in a while has been my digital camera. Getting to spend the evening with her and her mom was full of laughs. She is going to accomplish amazing things. May also brought a bucket list game to the Bay Area. The USA women’s national team was played South Africa in a send off game for the 2019 FIFA World Cup. Most people probably don’t realize that I am a huge fan of the US Women’s Soccer team so when I found out they were coming to my “backyard” I bought tickets for a friend and I to go. Needless to say that game was amazing! And getting to see the girls play live was definitely a check off the bucket list. The next weekend I also took a little road trip to Reno Nevada for Mollys graduation. Anytime I am able to spend time with the Murphy/Fregoso family is time well spent. img_9012

Overall the beginning of the year has been an awesome one. I have been able to spend a lot of time with loved ones that I haven’t since I was on the road so much. This year is definitely full of changes but I feel like they all are for the better. I love getting to see my family and friends more often. And I have also decided to go back to school….But the next blog will have more on that and my thoughts.

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img_2797As we say good bye today to 2018 I find myself looking back over the past year. It was a year of love, hope, travel, sadness and learning more about who I am. I love reflecting on the years past. I love to look back and see where I was and where I am today. My goal for 2018 wasn’t to be anyone but me. I wanted to focus on myself and do what I wanted to do. For me traveling gives me the time to think and ponder about life. It is my me time. The time that I give to myself to think through life.

This last year I learned to say no to things I didn’t want to do. I learned that you can be yourself and that the people that love you will still be by your side. I learned that even tho you love someone it doesn’t mean that you are always going to agree with them but you can still respect them. I learned that diversity is one of my favorite things now days. I learned that I am a total gypsy. I would rather be traveling, learning on the road and seeing new things every day then staying in one place for a long time. I have learned that you can be a good person and love your family and friends while you are on the road.

img_4009I have been in big cities, small towns, listened to the waves crash in the Pacific ocean and listened to the waves crash in the Atlantic ocean all in this year. I have met people that would give you the shirt off their back and people that wouldn’t. I have come to love the noise of the big cities. The sounds of cars, people talking, tall buildings surrounding you and just the amazing sites you can find in the big cities. I find myself feeling so small in those busy cities and sometimes find myself standing against a building just soaking in the hustle of the busy streets and smiling.

I learned that even while being away from “home” you can find home wherever you are. You can still be a true friend that is only a phone call away. You can be an aunt that is trying to show the little people in her life that it is ok to chase their dreams and if there is a will there is a way. Life isn’t about being unhappy or money but life is to be lived. My all time favorite quote is “To live would be an awfully big adventure!” and believe in that quote full heartedly.  I have coached some of the greatest girls in little league and learned that even while being competitive it is ok to just fall in love with the game all over again.

This year has been a learning year. It has been a year where there were moments where I just wanted to sit down and cry while other days I couldn’t be happier. I think that is how every year is but this year I feel like I grew more into the person I wanted to be. I quit thinking so much about what others think and just let down my guard and said this is me. I pierced my nose after wanting it for years and one of my best friends told me “hey it’s your life and you have to do what makes you happy and forget what others think, just be you.” img_4442Thanks Em for always having my back and supporting my crazy ideas.  I love with everything I am. I try to see the best in everyone. I would give anything I had to the ones I love and overall just try to be a good human.

I am definitely not perfect and I have definitely made my mistakes but everyday I try my best to find the good in the world. I try to find the happy in every day. I try to be there for my people and I try to be there for myself. As I continue to say goodbye to 2018 I also want to thank this year. Thank you for teaching me, opening doors, keeping myself and loved ones safe and thank you for the memories. There is so many amazing memories that happened this year. Thank you for true friends that are there no matter what. I have some of the best in my corner and I don’t know where I would be without my support system.

So here is to 2019! A year of more change, travel, friendship and a year of becoming more of myself. Happy New Year!

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